PRAY YOU NEVER ARE FORCED TO ASK YOURSELF "BUDDHA'S QUESTION" The Philosopher
Elvis Presley, Marilyn Monroe, Howard Hughes, And may others were forced to ask the question. Peggy Lee sang a song about it. Most silently live with the answers desperation.
WHAT DO YOU THINK? IS IT MEANINGLESS AND ABSURD?
DEATH DEFEATS US ALL; OR DOES IT?
SAME QUESTION ON FINAL EXAM OF ALL COURSES...
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"WHAT IS THE MEANING OF LIFE?"
In every college course, I would inquire this concluding question to my students. The consensus seemed to be this: to love and be loved in return. But, what is love? There are many types and characterizations.
There is passionate romantic love equated with the emotions sex. This love is part of our human animal temperament. The desire for sexual gratification is a normal lifetime necessity. GodÂs first commandment was: ÂYou are to have sexual relations. Be fruitful and multiply. However, it does not seen to be a permanent love form. . To say, this is love, seems inadequate. Then, there is the conditional provisional love form. In Latin, ÂQuid Pro Quo. Translated meaning: this for that. In reality, it is love based on a deal, contract or bargain. If you will do this for me, then I will do that for you. You scratch my back, and I will scratch your back. However, if you do not meet my expectations by completing your part of the deal, then I will not fulfill my. Is this really love? Or is it merely, a business transaction between people. Does it really have any true spiritual, ethical value? Unhappily, many marriages are predicated upon this love pact. The man marries a woman because she is attractive and he needs his sexual desires fulfilled. The woman marries the man for securityÂwhich means for his wealth or his ability to produce revenue to maintain her childrenÂsomeone to pay the bills. Is this true love? Or is it merely a contractual arrangement between two people who donÂt really love each other. The problem is this. Eventually, one or both of the partyÂs breaches anticipation in the conditional love relationship. Failing to meet the otherÂs expectations almost immediately results in resentment, invariable antagonism, heated quarrels- divorce with the children the true victims. This is probably why the United States has a 50 percent divorce rate.
Obviously, for love to be real, it must be unconditional. (Aristotle) Only when oneÂs love is for the other, just for being themselves, and not expectations of anything in returnÂeven being loved in returnÂonly then can love endure lifes adversities.
UNCLE'S/GODFATHER'S DISCUSSION WITH A NIECE
Hi Sweetie, Flying-off-the-handle in anger is what lifeÂs unsuccessful bitter people do. Adamantly insisting theyÂre 100% correct, even to the point of demolishing loving relationships. Being triumphant in the disagreement escalates becoming more important than the other person. They assume inflexible positions refusing to give halfway--- not attempting to discover the middle ground of compromise - reconciliation - the re-establishment of peace, harmony and love. This preliminary form of rage--- is unjustifiable antagonism inadequate to resolve problems. It forsakes rational debate generating passionate emotions, which only momentary release our repressed frustrations and stress. The built-up anger we all acquire in this hectic existence. Regrettably, this ranting and raving can develop into a ÂLIFELONG TEMPERÂ which culminates in unhappiness; even tragedy. Worse yet, at times it produces discord, which, because of pride, canÂt be resolved. You may win the argument but lose a friend. So, Sweetie, donÂt do this. DonÂt stumble into that trap. Or, at least be aware of it, and discover other ways to articulate your rationale in the dispute. Am I guilty of the same? Yes. But, remember what I taught you, I always try to eventually correct myself, express regret, forgive and try to forget (endeavor to be converted into an improved person) and to start over anew. ThatÂs what Jesus wanted us to do. ItÂs easier to hate than to love. To love we must forgive 7 times 7 times 7; otherwise Paradise will not be ours. For we are forgiven only as much as we forgive others.
You are about to transition through numerous metabolic, emotional and psychological teenage changes. As you articulate your own independence, you will differ more and more with adults. ThatÂs good. You are developing into your own person---discovering who you are; not what adults tell you you are, or what they want you to be. Adults will grow to be less significant in your life. Your peers and friends will give the impression of having all the solutions. But, they will be just as perplexed, as they transform through being (one of those creatures I warned you about) ---a Âteenager. Nevertheless, you will grow out of it, as you become you, as you decide your individual decisions independent of everyone. ThatÂs called becoming a mature adult. Or, autonomy as Immanuel Kant called it. Those who donÂt mature remain lifeÂs Âstunted children in adult bodies. How do I know these things, I was there, I made the same mistakes! I love you and forgive you about our disagreement. Material objects mean nothing. They can be replaced. But you canÂt restore a love lost; no price can be placed on a loved one. Please, learn from my and our mistakes; strive to be better than the rest of us. You have the greatest future ahead of you. Love, Your Godfather, Uncle THE PS One day you will have your own teenage adolescents, and say, ÂNow I understand what Uncle THE was driving at. Yes, all teenagers should be incarcerated until the age of 20!!! PS Besides, I raised so many teenagers, well Lord, help me IÂm raising another one!!! What did I do to deserve this!!! Saints preserve us!!!
A Babe once asked her Godfather, "Uncle THE, why is it that people are not good all the time?" A teenager recently asked, "How do you know the right thing to do when things become confusing?" The man answered, "That is simple Son. Just ask yourself what Jesus would do under those circumstances, then just do it. No matter how bad the consequences."
FOLLOW YOUR DREAM: (Goethe)
[3/7/2002 7:59:21 AM | StephenJames] [3/6/2002 8:36:32 PM] Dread of failure thwarts achieving our lifeÂs dreams. The aspiration in our heart of hearts yearning for accomplishment. What good is it to merely exist (animals exist) -- while never being alive! People live lives of silent anxious desperation (Thoreau). What meaning is life, if on the final day; we are distressed with profound misgivings regrets? That which we did not venture. Victorious success is immaterial; it is the challenge that is imperative. Embrace failure, expand knowledge of from it. And, arise to vigorously restart anew. It is healthier to cross the threshold of the battlefield, and be defeated in the arena of conflict- a bloody warrior. Rather than, sitting in lifeÂs grandstands, exasperatingly speculating of what might have been. (Teddy Roosevelt) Do not consent to others take charge of your precious short days - decide your mistakes for yourself. Opinions are like armpits, everyoneÂs got Âem, and, usually, they are malodorous. No one is infallible. We have a birthright to generate our personal misjudgments and errors, and to mature by wisdom from them. We are liberated. Divine Providence fashioned us with free intelligence and free will to decide. This is our fundamental nature Â
our personalityÂautonomy-self-governance. (Kant) When we, without indecision, pursue our objective, miracles occur. (Goethe) I speak from experience, being elected to a stateÂs Legislature, with little money, except the people who arrived on the scene to support me. If others detect we are confidently and honestly endeavoring to realize our dream, they will support us. I became acquainted with a celebrated movie director, who catastrophically failed 18 times; nevertheless, his perseverance was finally rewarded. So go for IT! Always be just who you are, no more , no less. For if you try to meet others expectations of who they think you should be, you will lose your very self. Wondering through life indecisive a lost soul not knowing who you are. And if you do not know who you are, you do not know in which direction to go. Therefore, you become trapped in an inner struggle - a tumultuous morass- from which you might be able to extricate yourself.
WHAT DID JESUS MEAN BY SPIRITUAL LOVE?
There exists a superior magnanimous altruistic love. The sort of love Jesus professed and lived- when he offered his life for the deliverance of mankind. The type of love a soldier demonstrates to his comrades by falling on the grenade destined to exterminate them. That is, those heroes, who surrender their own life for another. ÂNo greater love has a man, then when he lays down his life for his fellowman. (Jesus Christ) And, is that not precisely what Jesus Christ executed for his fellow human beings. He gave away his life in order that all mankind would be redeemed, liberated, emancipated? Permitted, once again, to return home to The Father to dwell in Paradise - in perpetual eternal happiness. For just as Abraham willingly would have sacrificed his son, so to The Father sacrificed his son on Calvary.
There are three, not two, commandments of spiritual love.
No. 1. The first commandment: ÂYou must love the Lord your God with everything, your complete my soul mind and strength.
No. 2. The second commandments: ÂAnd, you must love your fellow human being, as much as, you love yourself. All the other commandments are condensed into these two. However these are orders, not requests, commands! They mean we do not enjoy an option in the question; we are obliged to love God and our fellowman. Conversely, we are not permitted for any cause to hate our fellowman. To me, these commandments represent this: all the excellent things and blessings I desire, I should similarly desire the equivalent for all other human being, friend or antagonist. Yes, I am even to love my adversarial enemy. One who has done wrong, malevolence or evil to myself? Yes, I must wish for my enemies uppermost good, despite my resentment. I must forgive my enemy; exonerate him, even though he does not request it. If I do not forgive; neither then will I be absolved? However, this does not mean I must be a masochistic mat, allowing my enemy to maltreat me- without confronting him with his evil towards me. When Jesus stated we must turn the other cheek, he was referring to not meeting violence with violence. He was proclaiming the extinction of the law of revenge and retribution. The law of the Sumerians, Hammurabi, an eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth. Jesus was announcing that all his followers must be nonviolent. And at this point I am certain to get into great trouble, that every follower must be a pacifist.
More importantly, Jesus demanded a THIRD commandment at the last supper. It is seldom mentioned or scrutinized by theologians. The commandment is: ÂYou must love one another, as I have loved you. What does this mean? I think it means we must elevate our love to supreme heights. That, in everything we do, we must do it lovingly as Jesus did. And, again I am going to get into more difficulty here. Our love must be absolute self-sacrifice, even if it produces our death. (Remember, the martyrs) We should not search for death. However, if the unalienable human rights of our fellowman are endangered, or a severe injustice will transpire, or, some grand principle of conscience is to be desecrated, then we must protest, and if necessary unselfishly surrender our lives. ÂFor evil to be victorious; good men need only to remain silent. To put it another way: for our salvation to be certain, ÂYou shall love your fellow man, more than you love yourself. (author) Which appears to indicate by Jesus example, that only by insertion of our self-interest last and all others interest first, shall we achieve the quantity of spiritual love essential for salvation. My professional friends tell me, ÂChristianity just does not work in the real world. I respond, ÂthatÂs the whole point. The ethics Jesus taught us were not of this world, not the ways of man, but the ways of God. GodÂs way, is not manÂs way. What is wisdom to man is foolishness to God. . Rather, man is commanded to transform his way of thinking, beliefs, ethics, actions and living- i.e. repent.
So, whats the point concerning love? It is this. Without following the orders-the commandments of love, we cannot achieve salvation, and will not enter Paradise. Only a few will be saved. (Jesus Christ). In the parable of the seeds, remember, only 20 percent of the seeds fell on good spiritual soil and saved. While the remaining 80 percent of seeds, a fell on bad ground, never to bear fruit. Abandoning the faith not gaining access to Paradise. This is why Jesus warned the apostles not to clarify the parableÂs terrifying pessimistic meaning to the people. Jesus makes this clear: Âthe path which leads to perdition is wide and many travel that highway to Hell. However, the path, which leads to Paradise, is narrow. Few there are who follow it. And few there are who enter therein.Â
There is no instance salvation. No religion, minister, priest, rabbi or mullah can guarantee anyoneÂs salvation. Salvation is up to the individual  selecting the way of love, goodness, and doing the right and just thing - no matter possible negative consequences. Any man who proclaims he is a saved is either self-deceived, misinformed, a liar or a fool. Saint Paul said, ÂI work out my salvation, with fear and trembling. This is the man who was confronted by The Light - Jesus Christ Spending his entire life promoting the faith. He also stated, ÂIf I do all the other things, but do not love, then I am lost. For love is the greatest of all spiritual principles.
So, what is the meaning of life? I believe it is to spiritually love all others more than you love yourself. And, how could we have any potential certitude we have attained salvation love? (Once again, this observation got me in real trouble at a cocktail party with numerous clergymen.) I said, ÂThe secret to this spiritual love which guarantees salvation is this: that in all things we think, belief, say, and especially doÂwe must do exactly as Jesus would do; no more, no less. To do less is to jeopardize salvation. When we resolved to become followers of Jesus, we agreed to put off our old selves, and assume the ways - thinking of Jesus. There are no halfway commitments. There are two plans in life. One is our plan and the other is GodÂs Plan. Our plan does not matter. People asked me, ÂSo your a Christian? I respond, ÂNo, I am not a Christian. I have never even known a Christian. I am merely a follower of Jesus. I will not know whether I am a Christian until judgment day when one of two things will transpire. The Lord will say, ÂBe gone from me, for I do not know you. Or hopefully, He will say ÂWelcome, good and faithful servant, my good Christian, cross the threshold into Paradise, and eternally enjoy all you deserve.Â
OTHER PHILOSOPHICAL STUFF
I-ISM, ME-ISM AND WE-ISM: HAVING IT ALL
IS NOT ENOUGH: (Machiavellian) MOREISM-No man owns anything he just get to use it for a short period until hid s death. No man asks how much money in bank account on death bed. The treadmill of a meaningless and absurd life. Note from Machiavelli. The never-satisfied man who constantly seeks it ALL, finds his destruction. More Later...Essay In Progress
THE POWER OF THOUGHT:
Every thought, belief or word which is acted upon has an infinite number of consequences---for good or ill. "By your words, you are acquitted. By your words, you are condemned." Jesus Christ) For what one thinks, he soon comes to believe. What one believes, he soon speaks. And what one speaks he soon acts upon. It is our thoughts which create our reality. The reality in which we live is in our control and grasp. "I think; therefore, I am." (Descartes). See: new theories of quantum physics and mechanics. Is the speed of thought faster than the speed of light? (Einstein v Max Planck). There seems to exist "a common knowing" between all things within the universe worthy of investigation. A Common Mind? A unified theory-wherein all becomes one? Chaos Theory? What is Chaos to us may be simply Order to God? That there is no Chaos or random within the Mind of God---just Order? MARCH 19, 2002
As for positive thinking, "Always think positive thoughts, and bad things will still happen to you. The only difference is you'll think bad is good." You are what you think! What you have thought, you came to believe, and it made you what you are. What you will think -you will become. The only thing which could be faster than the speed of light, id the speed of thought. What is reality if not perception of reality by reason, ergo, thought? If I thinks it is true ---It is true. But that does not make it true. I may dream one thing is true to awaken discovering I have been deceived by dream-truth
IS SELF-DECEPTIVE PERCEPTION - REALITY?
So, who am I? You are what and who you think and believe you are. For it is not necessary for most to know what the Truth is, it is what they perceive the Truth to be, which IS. (Perception is their reality) More alarming, people believe what they prefer to believe. (Julius Caesar-he never spoke any other wisdom-just killed people,) And, even worse, people prefer to believe that which matches their prejudices, hatreds, and, especially, their self-serving self-interest. That why Jesus came into this Universe. To save us. Yes, to save us from our very selves. You see, being, thinking and believing the way we humans do, entitles us guaranteed entrance into Hades. But, to transform rethink and be reborn a new butterfly-another Jesus (so to speak)-gives us a long shot chance at salvation in Paradise. All men know the future and know it is not good. Better to believe self-deceptive illusion than to face the Truth. Why Because Death lurfks waiting to steal all from Man.
A life dedicated to discovery of the rationale objective facts ---not personal expectations---is a peaceful one- if not a happy one. Expectations vainly anticipate; while Fate creates Reality. Desire and do what you wish, but in the end Fate will have its way. Fate is God's Plan unforeseen by Man. Expect nothing, something will happen. Expect something, something may happen, but it may not be what one expects I once knew a man who raised the expectations of a woman promising to marry her. He is now buried in Roslawn cemetery Berwick PA.
THERE IS NO MYSTERY OF WHY EVIL EXISTS:
Dualism spiritual and physics--- the reality of Opposite bound in paradox make existence possible .Essay in progress.......
"HEAR ON ISRAEL, THE LORD YOUR GOD IS-- one!!!
There are no secrets just stuff you don't know yet. PLEASE, is like keys, it opens lots a doors. Asking is the key to understanding.
There are no mysteries, just things we do not comprehend or understand ---yet.
To the Physicist---here is POSSIBLE answer: Absolutes, except for God, do not exist. 1+1 does not always equal 2. 0 +0 equals not 2 but 0. Absolutes to men are only relative absolutes necessary for him to create a "reality" for himself. now here is one for the scientists The understanding of Relativity and Quantum Physic in a short paragraph: For everthingness which we believe exists, Buddha would say there exists an equal void of nothingness. For the somethingness which exists there must exist a nothingness which does not exist for Man.
However in God there is only the ONE. NO OPPOSITES. ONLY THE UNIFICATION F ALL THINGS SOMETHINGNESS AND NOTHINGNESS AS ONE. "HEAR ON ISRAEL, THE LORD YOUR GOD IS--ONE!"
THE COLLECTIVE CONSCIOUSNESS OF MAN and JUNG'S COLLECTIVE SUBCONSCIOUS?
Essay In Progress When you drive by an highway accident and see people injured, if you are human you are worried about the, you feel for them as if they we part of you. That is THE COLLECTIVE 'CONSCIOUSNESS' OF MAN What one feels on Earth one can feel on other side of universe.
TIME: the ANSWER RESIDES IN UNDERSTANDING EXACTLY WHAT TIME IS
---Hint There is no time, but to humans in 3D universe time seems to exist. there is no past because as I say this is now, it has become the past. There is no future because I must wait to reside in it but it too becomes the past with a new futures perspective. And there is no PRESENT ---yes NO NOW because as I say Now --Now has become the past. Think about it and physics will change revolutionary. Add the fact of Quantum Mechanic and other universes beyond 3D make time a reality much different if non-existent. The only thing which would be all time in ONE would be God if one believed in Him. What is time? Life is time. Time is Life. The number of finite days humans will exist in this universe or dimension. And time is not on our side. So, again, I say live each day as if its your last. It very well may be] TIME What is time? Life is time. The number of finite days humans will exist in this universe or dimension. And time is not on our side. TIME Live every day as if it were your last---it very well could be. Only when necessary, glance at the past, or project into the future. About those times there is little we can do. Regret. Worry. Speculate. In reality, there is no time, except the NOW time. Cherish it. Live it! Live-do not merely exist! Make every day Christmas, and every night Christmas Eve. When is the TIME. The TIME is NOW!!!
THE POWER OF NEGATIVE THINKING (Satire)?
The man who employs negative thinking, rather than positive thinking (foolishly-optimistic thinking), will never be frustrated. To the contrary, he will be prepared for the worst result. If the distressing does not ensue, then he can rejoice in the windfall that has come to pass. For the negative thinker never raises his emotional expectations. MurphyÂs Law is absolute, "If something can go wrong, it will go wrong; and, at the worst moment possible." The negative-thinkerÂs preparation for all that might go wrong cultivates achievement without anxiety. That is, in his heart of hearts, is not apprehension or worry, he has done everything feasible to meet prospective problems. Consequently, he possesses peace of mind, no matter the outcome. "Always prepare for the worst, and express thankfulness to The Father for each dayÂs blessings bestowed. Life could be a great deal worse." There was a woman who continually grumbled regarding the weather, until she saw her friendÂs home ruined by flood.
ALIENS DO EXIST?
Yes, Virginia, there are aliens. They are called angels. But remember the beautiful Lucifer was once an angel. But, he fell in love with himself, and became ugly satan who deal in fear accusation and cynicism. One more thing, did you ever wonder why Man has always had a relationship with the latter? Think about it. STEPHEN HAWKING IS RIGHT, IF THERE ARE ALIENS AND ADVANCED CIVILIZATIONS IN THE UNIVERSE, THEN WE SHOULD KEEP A LOW PROFILE-NOT SEEK THEM OUT!!!
ARE PERFECTIONISTS TRYING TO PLAY GOD?
HYPOCRITES:
We are all hypocrites. In Greek---'actors." Any man who says or thinks of himself as good, but does wrong, sin or evil is just that - a hypocrite. The World truly is a stage, and we are all sinners who portray ourselves as good. Many times, we are all guilty of role-playing and bad acting. But, there is no worse hypocrite than he or she who fails to see his own hypocrisy. By their self-righteous judgment of others, they condemn themselves. "Know Thy self. Examine Thyself. Discover the Truth of Thyself." (Socrates) "And the Truth shall set you free." (Jesus)
THE KNOWING-INSTINCT AND CONSCIENCE - THEIR ORIGIN? HOW DO THEY DAILY AFFECT OUR LIVES essay in Progress. THE KNOWING: INSTINCT AND CONSCIENCE WHAT IS THEIR ORIGIN? HOW DO THEY DAILY AFFECT OUR LIVES? Essay In Progress THE EXISTENTIALISTS:
To the Existentialists life was absurd and meaningless. ThatÂs why they a; committed suicide. They were right life really has no meaning, unless, you find the supreme meaning of living for love of others. Then you're not an absurdity. But a fool for happiness such love brings. Go outside yourself and you will find yourself in others who will love you. Try it If I accomplish all things in life, but have never really loved someone, the I have not LIVED, merely existed.
TEDDY ROOSEVELT AND THOREAU:
TR, in effect, stated it is better in life to have fought in the insecure arena of life, end up losing being batter bruised even unto death, than to be a mere spectator into the grandstands of life who dreams his dreams but acts not upon them. Therefore Thoreau would pen that men live lives of quiet desperation. Why ? Because they never followed their dream, because of fear of loss and embarrassment, never entered the arena of life to attain what they really are and desired. Cop0ntrarily, they sit in silent shock living the desperation of wondering what could have been , if they tried. Tis better to try and fail even be humiliated and defeated, that never to try at all. Better to suffer ''The slings and arrows'' to be rather than not to be. For the later is the true loser in life. And, he resents the man who does try, who cast himself into the fray without knowing result. For the man in the arena has lived, the man in the grandstand has merely existed. Which has the most meaning? Which defines ''Who amI?'' ''The Philosopher''
THOSE WHO SEEK CERTAINTY AND A SECURITY:
---LIFE IS RISK:
Life possesses no certainty. Rather uncertain she is the ruler. And certainty the exception. The only universal being, which has certitudeÂis God. For man the only certainty isÂuncertainty. There exists no security. Life is defined by risk. Those who attempt to avoid risk ignore risk; become the victim of Risks consequences. Those who believe there is security in life need to visit a cemetery. Assume the risk and possible bear good fruit of succeeding, otherwise be a grandstander who withers on the vine of life wondering why it uis so dull and you never accomplished anything. Teddy Roosevelt ''The Philosopher''
SCIENTIFICALLY: GENETICALLY, WE ARE ALL AFRICANS:
This WILL make our racist brothers andsisters happy. All human beings come from same genetic Eve - we are all of African ancestry. Meaning there is no genetic differences between the races. However, some individuals will not have genes matching any human type or grouping. These individual will be those with AB positive blood. This is a whole other unknown par of our history. Where we came from.
AN INCREDIBLE NOTE for our racist friends: Remnants of Atlantis will be discovered in the South Eastern region of Brazil. ALSO NEAR CLOSEST POINT OF ATLANTIC SEA PASSAGE FROM NOSE OF BRAZIL TO AFRICA. Evidence of 60 million population will be uncovered. Yes, 60 million. South America first settled by genetic Africans 60,000 years ago. South America was Atlantis.
;HUMILITY AND HUMILIATION: Sometime the only way a man can learn some humility, is by being humiliated. I did. Never forgot that lesson. Man is a spiritual paradox. He wants to do the good the ideal, but the practical ity world cause evil's choice. Man strives to be his divine angel within, but within a moment releases the savage beast within. The darkness always dawns into the morning Light. For the people who seek the Lord has no fear of the things of the night.( AAA) Man has eyes, he sees, but has no vision. Man has ears , he hears, sometimes even listens, but does not understand or seek true knowledge of truth and understanding.. Man has a tongue. He speaks but murders many a reputation talking himself into Hell. Man has a sense of taste , but sometimes the table manners of a brute. Feeding rather than dining. Man has a brain, but barely is it used to create and produce. Man destroys more than he creates, yet he does create. Man assumed by nature he is wise. ASSUME THEY ARE WISE--WHO IS MAN SEEKING WISDOM The wise man doubts and seeks knowledge and proof of what he suspects is true, the fool assume what he thinks automatically is truth. Man's nature is half angel and half beast. Life's only question is which side will prevail. For angels soar over the Gates of Paradise, but serpents cannot squeeze under them. For the shallow man, the only spiritual reflection he accomplishes, stares back at him from the mirror Morality is in the eye of the beholder. The